You have done so well with your weight loss have you thought about getting an hour with a personal shopper? There are many available on the high street now (even M&S), and they see bodies in all shapes and sizes. Also as they don't know you, they are unlikely to judge http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/artic ... treet.html.
If I was there, I'd take you out with me. I LOVE helping people find something they would never dream of wearing and seeing the delight on their faces when they find something that transforms them. Stuff on hangers can be intimidating and you don't know until you try things.
Next time you go into a changing room take your usual stuff, but take an item with you you would never normally try (even if it is out of your price range), and start experimenting. Dresses are a good start!
Dressing with indifference
by SSure on 21 Aug 2014, 16:34
And I wonder how I allow myself to be so indifferent to clothing/appearance that I can't be bothered to dress in the best way to make a reassuring impact on others (I think well-turned out people give off an aura of competence and trustworthiness). I dress in indifference and that isn't helpful - it's about time that I changed my attitude and overcame my loathing of shopping/working out what I can wear. I have a spinal curvature that limits my clothing choices but that shouldn't make me quite as careless as I am about my appearance.
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Dexa scan reports that I have low skeletal muscle mass and I'm categorised as sarcopenic, despite my age and fitness activities: body composition changed from 42% body fat at 127lbs to 20% at 103lbs.
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