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Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 24 Jun 2014, 18:55
by de_vi
I have to come out of the lurker corner and introduce myself to you people who have kept me motivated and informed throughout the past 9 months, since I discovered 5:2. I especially want to say to those who have doubts and who don't lose much, or regain: don't give up!! Stick with it, it does work! (Says coming off a 7-month plateau... )

First of all, I am so happy! I have no earth-shattering news to share, and certainly have not lost that much, but my BMI has recently been mostly on the green side of 25, and my waist/height ratio has been going down from 58 to 51%! - all that whilst I have gone through holidays, Christmas, Easter, and now summer holidays, and although fast days are not always easy (mostly they are not...) I have never ever in my life been so consistently on one diet (9 months now and its not a chore!) and either lost weight or not regained it (and more).

I started with a higher weight than on the tracker, I don't know if anybody recognises this but my lack of friendship with the scales meant I only faced the numbers after I was sure I had lost a little bit, so my starting weight would have been 2-3 kg higher. Again, I haven't lost so much in weight, but I have definitely lost 2 dress sizes (and a half, and hoping!) and I am just feeling "in control" - rather than have middle-age happening to me with no hope of recovery.

I am an emotional eater. I like "reward food", or drink. I like milk chocolate, Nutella on toast, I like my red wine in the evening, I like bubbly to celebrate just life, I like baguette, and I like cakes. Oh and I don't like sports. Never have. Up until I was 30, never a problem, but also because (as I now realise) I was a student for most of that decade and lived like one, i.e. no regular meals and long stretches of no meals, so some sort of fasting. Then work started and later on family life and the weight piled on, periodically brought under control by will-power-intensive stretches of following the diet du jour or slimming clubs. Needless to say in this forum but I will add for completion: of course it always came back, and in force.

Worse once the 40's started.... and then last summer I first read about a diet that you do 2 out of 5 days, but consecutive days, and with many more rules, and I thought of starting it but I looked at it like "a diet" - something unlikeable you have to do for a period of time to get the spread under some sort of control during which you have no social life, suffer throughout the day, and can't wait til it is over, one way or another. By coincidence I then found a reference to Dr. Mosleys book, read it - and instinctively liked the approach! I could see myself do it - and not suffer through it.

I started in September 2013, at probably 71 kgs (I am not very tall) , and was impressed at how easy it was! I lost 6 kgs within 2 months, but then realised that it was due to me not putting the scales on even fllooring (doh!), which I then corrected, so the actual loss was probably more like 3-4 kgs. But the motivation was hugh! Then I hit a plateau..... These are not funny. But I kept going, not least because of such inspirational stories such as #Ballerina, and recently also #Juliana.Rivers, who told of slow loss and plateaus - and most of all because I liked that despite sometimes eating all the "wrong" but delicious foods 5 days a week, I still did not put weight on - which is also a precious gift for us middle-aged people.

Now, 9 months on, I have lost 6 kgs, for good, and I have lost them despite holidays and festivities and social life and eating what I like - most of the time. That is the most amazing thing! I am a huge fan of 5:2, and will stay with it.

I have learnt so much on the forum, big thanks to #carorees whose articles the nerd in me really appreciates, and I can't name you all but you have kept me going throughout the plateau, always hoping the loss would start again. And then thanks to the Fast Beach diet book , from which I only took one line of advise really but was worth buying the book , I shock-started my system last months with 4:3, and it worked! Last week my waistline measurement was at 51% , a big relief and achievement for me apple-shaped bunny.

There also was somebody - forgive me couldnt find the name again - who mentioned that she doesnt tell people too much about the diet, as those who really want can find the info for themselves. That was another eye-opener, as I was kind of evangelising people around me and surprised as to why they did not all start 5:2 immediately - but it is true, it has to click with the person, and everybody has to find what works for them. I am no longer evangelising people, unless specifically asked.

And I love the rediscovery of "feeling hungry", distinctively. Also some other forum member said how they left home in the morning not worried about food to take with them, something unheard of before, and I felt the same: I love the fact that I can leave home with no food arrangement planned ahead, knowing that if I feel hungry I can just drink water or coffee - and I will survive. Whereas before I would have always had a small sandwich or muesli bar stuck in my bag, it's now a water bottle.

Well, I hope you do get the picture: I just love 5:2 and the changes it has brought about in my life. Thank you all for sharing your stories, and thank you #moogie for orchestrating and facilitating it all!

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 24 Jun 2014, 19:38
by Tracieknits
Welcome to the forum!

Glad to hear you're having such success and learning about your body :-)

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 24 Jun 2014, 19:44
by CandiceMarie
Loved reading yr story! So glad you've come out of lurkerville to join our happy band! :like: x

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 24 Jun 2014, 19:49
by justdee
Welcome to the forum and well done. Good isn't it? :)

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 24 Jun 2014, 20:23
by Sue.Q
Many thanks @de_vi For sharing your weightloss journey with us :like: and for coming out of the lurking status, I personally can relate to so much you've posted here, I love doing 4:3 it keeps me on the straight and narrow with not to many feed days in between plus leaving the weekends free to indulge a little, and yes I've learned so much from this forum and the lovely members all this knowledge regarding low carbing to relieve water retention which will always be a problem for me, my lessons have been learned the hard way but learned I have most definitely, I'm also one who doesn't tell to many people about this WOL unless I know they would appreciate what I've got to say, there's still a lot of ignorance out there regarding fasting and loads of people are set in there ways with no
budging whatsoever.
Well done and don't you go disappearing now. :clover: :clover:

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 24 Jun 2014, 20:56
by Loulou51
What a lovely post, thank you for sharing and good luck with carrying on :)

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 24 Jun 2014, 21:10
by callyanna
What a fantastic first post@de_vi!I'm so pleased that this WOL has worked so well for you and wish you continuing success on your maintaining journey!

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 24 Jun 2014, 22:27
by Hazelnut20
Fabulous post @de_vi - thank you so much for taking the time & trouble.

I soooooo know how you feel! 5:2 has changed my life and I am so pleased that it has worked its magic on you too!

Glad you have come out of the shadows - big welcome to you!

:rainbow: :rainbow: :rainbow:

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 25 Jun 2014, 02:28
by Juliana.Rivers
What a brilliant motivating first post for other newcomers not yet sure about this lifestyle we all have here. Thank you

I was at the local fitness equipment store this week and happened to do my usual boasting about losing weight with 5:2. They looked at me like i was crazy. then one of the two blokes said.. Yeah my parents are trying that. Well.. heres the proof I said. 4 to 5 kg lost in a year. (or about 80% of my target loss)

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 25 Jun 2014, 05:13
by janeg
Welcome@de_vi.
What a lovely post - thank you so much for sharing your experience and enthusiasm.
#nolongeralurker# :D

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 25 Jun 2014, 07:01
by de_vi
thank you all so much for the friendly welcome! (I would have inserted a smiley here if I knew how to - will figure out over time I hope!) Indeed #nolongeralurker# - and its Wednesday today, so off to 2nd fast of the week. Have a wonderful day everybody!

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 25 Jun 2014, 07:57
by julianna
Thank you for your lovely post. It was a great read!
Xxx

Re: Delighted! Not a quick fix but a WOE

PostPosted: 25 Jun 2014, 08:11
by Ballerina
Good morning @de_vi what a great post and congratulations on doing so well. This , for me, truly has been a life changing experience so it's lovely to see others get the same the buzz from its success. I am hoping to see you get under 50% waist to height ratio soon, for us apples that really is a moment to savour, so keep us informed and good luck

Ballerina :heart:

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