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There is only so much any one person should have to endure at any one time and you have clearly had more than your lifetime's share in one short time - sending you best wishes for your strength and endurance xx

My heart aches for you. Please do pop in and vent, scream, cry, or whatever you need to do to keep your sanity.

Betsy, this is overwhelming to read, never mind to live through. My heart aches for you also. We are here to support you in any way we can.

I don't have the words to express my concerns for you. Everything seems trite.

However, I hope that you are able to devote time to yourself in order to recover from this traumatic time. Be gentle with yourself and take the time that you need in order to grieve and recover

Kindest regards and condolences.

Astounding & totally horrendous, diffulcult for one person to take so much in such a short time, I can barely begin to imagine how you feel .

Look after yourself my lovely, you're going to need some TLC.

We're here when you need us

I just read your update and, even if I didn't understand all the health conditions, I do understand how horrible it must be to live so many tragedies in a so short time. Sorry doesn't seems to be an enough word.

Please stay strong and, even if you can't come here for a while, we are thinking of you and you will always have a safe place here.

[janeg]

Oh Betsy
I can only put my arms around you, cry with you and wish I could make it better.
What to say or do to help? At a loss
hugs

Betsy, this is overwhelming to read, never mind to live through. My heart aches for you also. We are here to support you in any way we can.

This. I have not been on here much recently so not being in the loop about who's here & who's not and I do feel out of the 'gang' (if there is one) - but I was so sad reading this, it genuinely made me cry. I cannot imagine how difficult this is, and I'm sure it will take a very long time for you and your whole family to work through all of these individual heartaches. Do look after yourself and be kind to yourself, and if there's any way we can help support you please let us know.

No-one should have to endure so much all at once, it hurts just to read it. May you find the strength and support to get through one day at a time.



Barbara

Oh you POOR, poor lady. I cannot believe what I have read - what you have had to endure in such a short space of time. I am SO very sorry for all of your losses. Please look after yourself and stay strong, you must be totally heartbroken xxxxx

I'm so sorry to hear about your loved ones, and sorry too that I can't do more than echo all the sentiments previously expressed.
Thinking of you.

You must be totally shell shocked. Take care and try and find time for yourself - and time to grieve.

I don't have the words - your situation is beyond words. Take time to care for yourself as you help your family. Every good wish and thought being sent to you.

Ohh Betsysgr8, I'm so sorry to hear of your losses....How tragic. I'm hoping you're getting supported where you are right now to get through this. There is a lot of love in this site towards you. Please remember we are here.
Get through your own way, there is no right way to get through loss...just your way.
As others have said please be loving to yourself.
warmly
Jo

I'm not very good with words of support, others have said what I would like to say much more eloquently. Please be assured that you are in our thoughts and that there are hundreds of virtual hugs on their way to you.