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I'm writing a post on my stitching blog about the ability to get things done, that is getting other people to do what I expect them to do or getting things to work out for me or family members. I thought the word Enabler was a good one, but when I looked it up I'm not so sure.
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Facilitator is a word used in the Home schooling world. You don't teach, you facilitate the child's learning by providing the materials and support they need to follow their educational thread.

Since I can be a bitch and quite forceful in times of need, I think I look for a bit stronger word

I had a quick google in the theasurus and got these.

facilitator arranger coordinator organizer promoter assistant backer designer helper developer

Then spreading out from that there is overseer, promoter, initiator

delegate or assign?

Leader?

We call the voice on our cars' GPS the Nag-ravator. It doesn't matter if it's Simon Cowell's voice or the girl. "Recalculating..."

People are like strings, it's generally better to find a way to pull rather than push.

This more appropriate?

I like the word facilitator! Hard core facilitator!!

Just read some of your blog The Jan Krentz quilt your after has been sitting on a pile of my to do books for a couple of years too!

bossy pants?

it's a shame enabler has a bad connotation.

Thanks all. How about enforcer??
Feed the dogs and of to (the most boring) work.

General dog's body ... chief cook and bottle washer are the terms in my house but I get your drift
If you the one that does more than others ... When that happens to me I am usually saying ... There are no. Aids in this house you know! #% $&@ or words like that

General dog's body ... chief cook and bottle washer are the terms in my house but I get your drift
If you the one that does more than others ... When that happens to me I am usually saying ... There are no. Aids in this house you know! #% $&@ or words like that

Dog's body I am too but I'm also the one to send to the front (family wice) the get/persuade/threaten/force mostly public and other companies to live up and deliver Like when we got home with Sam and the public insurance "company" (Försäkringskassan) refused to pay out the "barnbidrag " (child benefit?) for the time since we got him in our care. But after cajoling and in the end threaten them with public exposure and call them racists. they complied quicker than fast.

Almost always I win