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It's been an exciting, if exhausting, week. We drove over 700 miles each way to visit my son and experience his new restaurant. The trip was far more grueling than we had expected, which was a shame, as it meant I was very tired through much of our visit and, worst of all, for a trip centered on food, my stomach was a bit off.

Nevertheless, I spent a wonderful day at the restaurant watching my son displaying his chef skills, managing his staff, and handling an overflow crowd of happy diners. The place was gorgeous, far nicer than the photographs had led me to believe. They had used a designer and an architect who did a brilliant job. The building is old with a beautiful facade and a two story high wood ceiling. The kitchen is right there where you can watch everything happening. The decor is industrial with beams and pullies, and jars of spices and ingredients filling the walls. It was by far the nicest decor we saw anywhere in his city and we dined several other places.

The food was wonderful, too. Since my son's previous restaurant experience was running a place that delivered fried chicken, this was not a given. His cooking is entirely self-taught, much of it out of classic cookbooks. But it works. While we were there a reviewer in a local magazine called one of his creations a "destination dish" and just this morning another magazine review raved about everything the reviewer had tasted.

This isn't the kind of restaurant where you will find bizarre ingredients arranged in peculiar combinations. What they do is take simple stuff, like a turkey or meatball sandwich or BLT and make it perfect. They make their own mayo, cure their own bacon, and the turkey is carved off a roasted breast. They bake all their own bread and desserts each day, and their baker's brownie was as good as my own, all buttery and dense with fudgy chocolate.

The restaurant is in a downtown business district, so it's purpose is to offer a delicious lunch that people can get in and eat in 30 minutes. The food comes out within 30 seconds of being ordered, as everything is cooked before they open for lunch, and assembled, in public view, on a line. So it is pretty much fast food that has died and gone to heaven. When I was there, they had so many customers coming in that they sold out of everything they'd made by 1:30 and had to close early. For now they only offer lunch, but they have plans to expand to dinner if they get enough customers to support that. Downtown tends to empy after businesspeople go home, but they do have many hotels within walking distance, so it may work.

I only wish I had been able to eat more. After sampling three sandwiches, soup, slaw and a brownie I was so full couldn't even eat dinner six hours later. I wonder if fasting has shrunk my stomach, because in the past this would not have been an issue for me. But it may also have been because that very long drive left me frazzled and, unfortunately, messed up my already messed up neck and back, so I was quite achy the whole time.

We ate several other places, including a very good Italian restaurant where the best thing I ate was a deep fried rissoto ball and a very good chicken marsala served over a creamy polenta. We also visited a big hall, something like Seattle's Pike's Place, where there were a large selection of food vendors selling artisanal food. They had a wonderful pretzel bakery and a French bakery where I got a maple glazed pecan danish-style pastry that was ambrosial. There was also a little hole in the wall restaurant, walking distance from my son's house with killer Thai curry served over sticky rice. We ate there twice when I was too tired to go anywhere fancy. And the breakfasts! Wonderful bacon, thick, yummy pancakes. (This too may have something to do with why I didn't have a large appetite for food the rest of the day.)

It's probably a good thing my son is 700 miles away, though I miss him dearly, because if I lived in my son's city, I would easily balloon up to 300 lbs, there was so much good food everywhere and I am not good at self-control. Coming home I really had to face just how mediocre the food is where I live. Time to get cooking! If my 29 year old son can make food that good, so can I. And I have the same books. <G>

Note, this is a midsized midwestern town that I have never seen written up anywhere as a foodie heaven. But the quality of what we ate was far superior to what we had in the Seattle area this spring.
Welcome back. I need to have a proper read of this later!
How excitited & proud you must feel! The knowledge & proof that ones own children have successfully entered adulthood & are now making their own way in the world is very satisfying & rewarding. It makes all the hard work of bringing them up to share ones values & be responsible people so pleasing. My eldest son is 37 & I still find it difficult viewing him as an independent adult! Silly I know but my maternal feeling of still wanting to help & protect him from life's woes hasn't disappeared yet :lol:
WARNING! DO NOT READ @peebles post on a FAST DAY!!!

Wow, peebles, that sounds so very yummy! I'm not sure that being 700 miles away is safe...I'm not even sure that I'm safe over here!

You must be super proud! :grin:
Wow, @peebles, thank goodness today is not a fast day! That food shucks, your whole trip sounds like a foodie's paradise :razz: You must be so proud of your son, his vision and his achievement. Congrats!
What a great post..its so well written,you should do restaurant reviews@peebles
I really enjoyed reading it as not a fast day for me!
I love the description " fast food thats died and gone to heaven"!
you must be so pleased, and rightly very proud of DS!

Sorry that tiredness spoilt things a bit - i know only too well what a blight that casts on things..hope yr tum is ok now x
Thanks everyone!

@Isis, What you wrote is so true! This is the kid whose future I used to really worry about, and it seems like just a little while ago since I was nagging him to do his homework and fielding phone calls from angry high school teachers. So it is really tough to treat him as a completely grown up person and not cross examine him about how he is doing things. But naturally at this stage of life he does not want his mom telling him what to do.

I tried to limit my share of Mom's Good Advice, and what little I gave will probably be ignored, but it is a balancing act. To make it even more fraught, he introduced me to his new girlfriend, about whom he is very serious. Fortunately, I was very impressed by her. She is a big step up from the last one, about whom I was publicly polite and privately horrified.
@peebles sounds wonderful - now just where is this place? PM me if you prefer.
@peebles - it sounds wonderful. :grin:
I'm not sure what the rules are about mentioning businesses here, so if you are in or travel to the U.S. Midwest want the details of where the restaurants is just PM me and I'll reply.
@peebles I have been thinking about you and your visit while you have been away. I love your post. There is nothing better to see our children be happy and own their journey in life whoever they are and by whatever means, there is a entry for us all. When I was 18, my father gave me a lift to the train station (leaving home) and he said to me that all he wanted for me in life was be happy. That very important and enabling moment, at a train station, has stayed with me to this day and I have passed on to my daughter. So be very proud and acknowledge your input as your son certainly does.

Next time consider hiring a chauffer, the opposite of hitch hiking - the hitch hiker gets a ride but has to drive your limousine! :grin: It is wonderful your son is giving so much back to you. :victory: :cool:

At work we have a annual 2 day retreat where no one is allowed to fly around the world At past retreats we have tended to talk about what and how we deliver our international research. But today at our annual retreat we had some down time and it was great, I learnt some Swahili and their customs, how to make flowers out of icing and Vietnamese lesson - how to make paper rice parcels - that's my next dinner party as the host does not cook, guests make their own dinner under guidance.

So I guess I'm trying to say, if we speak our minds, acknowledge our feelings, are creative peeps and love life - we can be a creative community - just like your son's new venture and like the fastday community : :like: :clover: :heart: :cool: And if we ever feel stuck and need to get unstuck - what better place to come than the fast day home.

Well I'll just have to PM you to be able to book my table mid west :wink: :wink: :wink:


Liz :heart: :cool:
It is good when our children are happy and successful at what they want to do. It means we have done our job too!
@Merlin, Having watched a lot of my friends' kids grow up, I have come to think it is a bit unfair to link their outcomes to our parenting. I know some very good parents whose kids have turned out very badly due to mental health issues that they had no control over. And some of the most successful, creative, loving people I've known, including OH, grew up with toxic, neglectful parents in downright Dickensian circumstances. My OH could have easily become a criminal with the childhood he suffered which included a long stint of slave labor on a remote farm. Instead he has become a very successful artist who has become wealthy selling his work--and who treats everyone he meets with incredible kindness and generosity.

So while I am thrilled with how well my son is doing, I will try to resist the temptation to take credit for it. He has worked insanely hard to get where he is, at times under very difficult conditions, 60 hours a week, with shifts that ended at 4AM most of the time and only one day off. His work ethic is very much his own, as is his remarkable ability to get along with people. Since his parents and step dad are all antisocial hermits, the social abilities must be a genetic mutation.
Golly, that sounds absolutely amazing. You must be so proud @peebles. It sounds like he could be onto a winning strategy there which his concept.
how wonderful!!!

Well I'm dying to know where this is too - hubby is from the midwest and we have to visit periodically, plus my best friend moved to the midwest almost two years ago (sob!)

I'm also not sure that telling us now that two people have asked is advertising. For one, nobody can click on a link and order a BLT to be delivered ;-) You aren't going to make money off this and it's doubtful your son will make any either. My guess is if anyone is offended, you can say "Tracie guessed it might be ok, and I asked before posting" and the worst that would happen is it gets deleted.
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