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Our Frequently Asked Questions topic will answer many of your fasting & weight loss questions!
If you're new and have a question or need some advice, please give us as much information as you can about your situation in order for us to be able to help you as best we can. For example, it's helpful to know your BMI/weight, how much you want to lose, any medical conditions which might affect your weight and (if you've started fasting already) how you do your fasts in terms of splitting up your calories, what you eat etc. Thanks!
I love the gentle approach instead of all-or-nothing restrictive diets. I joined this Jan. I am a compulsive over-eater, and have been in OA (Overeaters Anonymous) and find this site very helpful. My weight loss is slow but steady. and hope it is becoming a way of eating, rather than dieting. Using 5:2.
I hope you can find a healthy approach for yourself. Good luck.
You *are* at a very healthy weight. You are already at a BMI approaching 20.
My mother has about a 50 year history of bulimia and anorexia. She has no idea I do this diet. I don't tell her because 50 years later, I know it's still a struggle for her to maintain a healthy weight. If you want to drop your weight to 120, I think you are at serious risk of major relapse of your eating disorder.
Please stop, and go tell your counselor or doctor you visited this site and why. Please. For your own health.
All the best to you.
My mom, unfortunately, raised two daughters with different EDs. My younger sister is bulimic, and has had a rough history with it. She won't really talk to us about her medical stuff, but I know she had to have surgery on her esophagus about 10 years ago, so I'm guessing she was at least poorly managing her ED then. I haven't seen her in 8 years, so I'm not really sure. I got the opposite - I eat too damn much. Still, I've had a few doctors tell me my ED is way healthier than theirs.
I'm perhaps a bit too sensitive on this issue. But your statements about needing to get to 120 do ring a lot of alarm bells with me. My mother and I are both 5'6". When I've been130, I've had people talk to me about being too thin and needing to not lose any more weight. My mom's healthy range is 130-140. She's been usually inside that range for the past 40 years. So yes, I think 120 at age 44 is too thin.
Again, I'm not a clinician. But I'm thinking perhaps you need to talk to a counselor. I think right now that would do you a lot more good for your self esteem than losing 8 more pounds. I've seen all too often that losing those 8 pounds is never enough.
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