Betsysgr8 wrote: Lol, shows why this works for men and women. Women are used to 'calorie counting' even if it's just in our heads and see nothing wrong with modifying 5:2 with 'calorie counted' days. Whereas, the men seem a bit horrified at the thought of calorie counting normal days! Just an observation.

Yes, Juliana, I agree with you and Caroline, vary your days but have a 'blow-out' 2000 calorie day in there somewhere, weekends are usually a good day for that sort of eating, and takes away any possible associated "guilt" lol. Isn't is said that "variety is the spice of life"?
I nearly mentioned this in my post - it seems as though the ladies can't 'let go' of the calorie counting/regimented approach (probably ingrained from years of 'expert advice') whereas the blokes are happy to 'suck it and see', allowing themselves to eat freely (again, within reason) on the feed days without the guilt that seems to affect the ladies.
Just an observation from me as well !
My (laymans) take on the science seems to be that it's not just OK to hit (or even slightly exceed) the TDEE on feed days, but it's actually essential so that the metabolism doesn't trip into 'famine' mode and cling onto the fat - totally defeating the object. This approach has worked for me anyhow, but like you say, variety and all that !