Jed - well that is one area where I have been dealt an ace

have suffered no bad symptoms since last period 5 years ago (but did go out with a bang- it was, believe it or not, on my 50th birthday, had v heavy and sudden flow, coupled with food poisoning, due to seafood

so was feeling very poorly, had to leave table at my birthday dinner in Italy

).
But since then, no postmenopausal symptoms of any kind
However, still get occasional skin problems

and I guess the gradual weight gain -especially round the waist- can be put down to being postmenopausal. But hearing about and seeing what others go through, that is one area where I feel the gods have smiled upon me.
I do hope that coming off HRT will not be a problem for you re skin or any other effect. Your dr must be fairly confident about it being an ok thing for you to do, hope it works out.