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Betsysgr8, you have always been so supportive of me, I'm glad to offer you support and love and send it your way. Hang in there, this sounds like a really tough time.

Through the recent death of my Father-in-law, I have found support in this really great movie called, Greifwalker - online for free http://www.nfb.ca/film/griefwalker.

Oh my.... Reading you really puts problems that are not life threatening on perspective....

I am not a believer so I won't pray but send to your sister a lot of positive thoughts to give her the strength needed to face this terrible time and to keep on going...

Dang Betsy...just a really tough situation all the way around. I wish you the strength and compassion in the upcoming days.

wish one could be of practical help - but thoughts & love heading to you and your family xxxxxx FatDog

[Tracieknits]

Sending much love and strength your way. So glad your sister has you for support! <3

I'm sorry your family has to go through this.

Thinking of you, your sister and your family at such a difficult time, and sending hugs and positive thoughts your way.

Sending support your way, what an awful time. You're in my thoughts (())

[carorees]

So sorry to hear this Betsy, what a dreadful time your family is having just now.

I agree with others who have said, just be there for your sister and help translate/clarify what the docs have said, but give her time to come to the right decision. If the decision can safely be delayed a little to allow time for the family to come to terms (to some extent) with the situation, then I don't think that is a bad thing.

Sending lots of virtual hugs and am praying for you to find the strength for you to be able to do what is needed.

Hi Betsy

I am thinking of you and your Sister, and am sending you lots of hugs {{{{ }}}} and kisses xxxxxx

take care my sweet.

Maggie

So sorry that your sister,you and the rest of the family are going through this wrenching situation. Your love and support for her will help her so very much.

Sending you love and hugs

Found this book to be quite useful in the past:

http://www.amazon.com/Survive-Loss-Love ... 897&sr=1-1

So sorry to be reading this - prayers, love and hugs to you and your family. I know where you're at - having lost a mother and father in law to cancer and now having an aunt who is at the end of her battle with it - we just have to stay strong for those left behind xx

You are all in my prayers and sending hugs your way now.
Xxx julianna

Dear Betsy, I shall keep you and your family in my prayers.