dhana wrote: I believe 5.2 works well, particularly on a psychological level. Just about any diet regime works, if you are doing it simply for weight loss. The problem lies in adherence. Personally I find I have naturally gravitated to going fairly low carb because pasta, white rice, bread,white potatoes and sugary cakes etc. leave me feeling hungry for more, and I stop losing weight because I do eat well over my tdee when a large part of my food comes from carbs. I do much better omitting them and replacing them with veggies, generous glugs of avocado and olive oil, coconut oil, a little cheese, juicy steak, salmon etc. But I still have a pudding, pasta dish, wine etc. from time to time, because I'm living my life, not living my diet. I find the mental hardship of never allowing myself another cake/bread etc. enough to drive me to do exactly that, and then some!! My weight loss is much better than it ever was with Atkins or Dukan simply because of the amazing 5.2 concept, which allows you the freedom to eat any foods you enjoy, nothing off limits for 5 days of the week. As time goes on, the penny drops for some of us that we can tuck into cakes and junk food but too much stalls our weight loss, and I honestly think that the discipline of the 2 fast days forces us to acknowledge the feel good factor of making better food choices, and even appreciating and enjoying new healthier foods. The habits of a lifetime can be hard to break and most of us have not been on this woe so very long, but my habits are changing and I feel much more confident of maintaining this wol than I ever did with any other eating regime.
All of this! Dhana I think our favourite foods are very similar (apart from the avocado - bleurgh) and I particularly like your phrase 'I'm living my life, not living my diet'. That's exactly why I like 5:2 - it means I can be 'normal' most of the time. And 'normal includes wine, cheese, crisps, sandwiches, ice cream, porridge, peanut butter, crumpets etc etc - all in moderation of course!!!
And Chris - embrace the 7 mile walk! You'll feel fab when it's done. I love to walk with my husband - I find it a really good way to talk to each other properly as it's just you two with no distractions for ages. You don't need to rush and you can sometimes really thrash out things you've been wanting to talk about for ages. Most of our 'big talks' have happened on long walks...even got engaged at the top of Cadair Idris in Wales! Probably our personality types tho - neither of us like confrontation so it can take a long walk to really give us the time to say what we really think! only been married 2 years so this may well change!