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I need coffee to wake up.
I can't drink coffee with an empty stomach.
If I want to wake up I have to eat.
I've postponing my blood tests for the past 3 weeks because I can't face going out without drinking coffee. I remember one time I was nearly hit by a car...
TML13 wrote: Nothing is magic.
In the Mediterranean diet breakfast is the most important meal of the day. All around Greece, the traditional breakfasts are full of all food varieties. People couldn't work in the fields all day with no energy... (but I guess that's what the ancestors of my side of the earth did, perhaps in Northern Europe it was different)
Always thought the Greeks put more emphasis on the evening meal, family gets together etc? That always seemed the way with our friends in Greece. They generally had coffee and whatever was quick and easy - early evening was the time to sit with family and drink wine, eat and talk.
If I could have any holiday home it would be there. We had a Greek Night at work last night & the Greek music and the smells of Greek food almost brought tears of longing to my eyes!
If you go around Greece and stay at traditional guest houses (like B&Bs) you will be shocked by the size of the breakfast and the different foods that you will meet depending on the area and its local produce.
Still, the big family meal was Sunday lunch.
Things nowadays have changed a lot and the diet has changed a lot too. Most of the families don't sit down to eat together since everybody has different schedules and you can't expect a child to wait till one (or both) parent comes back from work before they have lunch or dinner.
When I was growing up, the most important meal was lunch. Dinner was something light like toasties, salad, yoghurt and fruit etc...
Catscratch wrote: I'm starting to lose the will to live!!!
Truth!
Is there any way you could convince your wife to read around and perhaps eventually post on this forum? It has occurred to me that this place probably takes the place of a diet club for a lot of us. We can weigh in and report our gains/losses regularly, chat about our successes and frustrations, get angry and have a laugh with a bunch of lovely supportive people. It's better than any diet club I've ever been to and it's free!
The thread has generated so much interest from people who want your wife to succeed and feel certain that this WOE is the way to do it. We can't all be wrong can we?
One key principle I live my life by is that "the mind and body are the same system".
So if the OP's wife has been generally trying to lose weight for the last 25 years (as outlined on the first page) then she's probably got very good, expert even, at how not to. My suggestion would be to combine a mental re-appraisal alongside a sensible 5:2 regime - realign the mind and feed the body appropriately. No point doing one without the other.
However, I was really sold by the science and health benefits bit, so have keep going.
Although my scales have stubbornly not moved after all my efforts I can honestly say that I feel better after my fast days, my skin is better, I have more energy and (probably most importantly) my body shape has changed significantly. Like many women, Ive always struggled with abdominal fat, normally I have to diet my arms and legs to sticks to begin to have an impact on my tummy - but with this fast diet my waist has gone from a size 14 to a 10! I do still find it annoying that Im not seeing the miracle results lots of people report, but I believe that however your body responds to this lifestyle, the effects will ultimately be positive.
Good luck.......
I hope you got my reply to you the other day, I'm not computerate so not sure if it went to you or not,
Ballerina x
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