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Apart from the weight loss I mean



Mine is to do a star jump without my jelly belly jumping with me

What's yours???

To be able to feel good about myself and actually enjoy clothes shopping again.... To actually have some self confidence

To be able to visit 'home' without people telling me I am fat which will be impossible as asians comments about your weight no matter what and to be able to get back to my 'skinny' clothes again. Those that I did not rid when I gained.

To be able to do a long drive (3 hours plus) in comfort without having to have the top button of my trousers undone!

It's not a secret anymore, I want to wear my size 8 skinny jeans and feel comfortable in them.

My secret goal ? The one that I don't dare to even think loud ? I have a sister I didn't see for years (long and very complicated story) and I always was the chubby one. She always found a kind of power over me which is one of the things that made me want to cut all the ties with her.

I want, one day, to go and knock at her door and give her the schock of her life when she will see she is not the skinny one anymore, don't say anything, and just go away....

I know I know, it's kind of childish...

To not feel embarrassed about my size, not to hide under big baggy clothes (that's not fooling anyone is it!!), to stand at the front in photos rather than tuck myself away at the back, to fit comfortably into a size 14 M&S jean, to be the person I used to be........ I'm getting there
Well, those secret desires are now blown aren't they

I don't care if it's a public statement, sister deary don't understant a word of English

My secret goal ? The one that I don't dare to even think loud ? I have a sister I didn't see for years (long and very complicated story) and I always was the chubby one. She always found a kind of power over me which is one of the things that made me want to cut all the ties with her.

I want, one day, to go and knock at her door and give her the schock of her life when she will see she is not the skinny one anymore, don't say anything, and just go away....

I know I know, it's kind of childish...

I have sister in laws from hell do that count??
Though I think a lot of us so understands you as I am sure we have that certain family member that rubs us up all the wrong way!

Μanderley, I love your secret goal! I offer to come with you and film her reaction! I'm a revenge/closure kind of person, I want to see what goes around when they come around and laugh!!!

Not at all childish Manderley.

To be able to wear leggings, with a normal t shirt, rather than a long top / dress ( I wouldn't, because its a fashion I don't like as it looks like you forgot your skirt ) but I would like to have the legs to carry it off!

Sister in law, aunt, childhood best friend who can't hel but saying she's the pretty one, everybody is welcome !!!

It's not revenge per say, I do it for me and not for her but, I must admit, to be abble to shut her up will be a great gratification

5 minutes of her in shock will compensate for the thirty something years of her being a b****

I am fully turning to the dark side of the force

I can't say that I had people like this in my life but I was always the thin cousin and my cousins (3 overweight, 2 obese) always commented that I look too thin and could I be anorexic? Mind you, I was -nor I ever will be- too thin.
As a result, I was always eating more at family gatherings just to shut them up. Not that I'm complaining, I love food but it felt weird.

I've a few but already confessed to 2 ( see my SECRETS!!! post
Others I'd like to get on a bicycle sometime soon & would love to put on a cozzie again and go swimming Very soon
Can't remember last time I did either coz I'm ashamed of myself Sue